When critics question your calling

Everyone has probably faced this question at some point: “Is what I’m doing worth it? Should I keep going?”

Especially when criticism slips in, uninvited.

It doesn’t always arrive dramatically. Sometimes it’s subtle: a passing comment from a family member, a snide remark from a coworker, unsolicited advice on a Facebook post. 

You put yourself out there. You’re doing the work. You believe you’re walking in alignment. And suddenly, you’re not so sure.

The thoughts creep in.

“Maybe I’m not cut out for this. Maybe I should scale it back.”

Criticism loves to dress up as truth. Sometimes it wears the mask of humility. Humility is noble, but shrinking yourself is not.

There’s a difference between being teachable and being shaken.

As someone who works in a public-facing role and as a woman of faith, I know that anything written for an audience is open to scrutiny. 

Not everyone will agree, and that’s okay.

Your calling doesn’t require universal approval. Stay focused on your purpose.

When you first answered your calling, everything felt clear. The details might have been messy, but your conviction blazed. You felt alive. You felt sure.

Then, suddenly, other voices filled the air.

But not every voice deserves to echo in your mind. Some voices sharpen you. Others are just passing noise.

Discernment is knowing the difference.

Scripture reminds us that even Jesus faced criticism. In Matthew 27:12–14, He answered nothing while being accused, and the governor marveled.

His silence was not weakness. It was the quiet strength of knowing His purpose.

There is a time to listen. There is a time to learn. And there is a time to stand steady.

Confidence is not a license for arrogance. We all have room to grow. But criticism is not a command to shrink.

Root yourself in your purpose and stay true to your calling. Let your light shine by standing tall, not by chasing applause.

And if someone finds that light a little bright? They might just need some sunglasses.